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Loving wife spanking in a Christian Marriage
|Consensual Christian Domestic Discipline|
|This workbook is written to suggest important topics of discussion for couples new to their CDD
relationship or those who would like to clarify their expectations of CDD.
Table of Contents
Biblical Justification for CDD
Overcoming Cultural Influences
The meaning of consent
Chain of Command
Identifying Strengths and Weaknesses
Areas that Cause Disharmony
Husbands Evaluation of Wife
Consequences for Non-cooperation
Wifes Means of Voicing Opinions
Sample Consent Form
In todays society where any physical discipline is severely frowned upon, it is important that even a Christian Domestic Discipline relationship be consensual; however, it is interesting to note that Biblically, a mans right to chastise and discipline his wife is strongly implied. Just as a parent would never stop to ask permission to chastise his child, a husband should not have to obtain consent to discipline his wife; however, our legal system has put him in the position of having to do so. Just as our culture is turned upside down in so many other things, the traditional Christian marriage is no exception.
It is worth mentioning that even Biblically, it is best if the wife submits willingly rather than being forced to obey her husband, and in giving honor to his wife as the weaker vessel, it is good that the husband listen to her thoughts and opinions and try to incorporate them into their lives so that she will be content. In that sense, this discussion of CDD and all it entails is Biblically sound. That is the spirit in which we will approach the remainder of this book.
This workbook is designed for a husband and wife beginning a Christian Domestic Discipline relationship and is meant to give them a starting point as to the things they need to discuss so that each know what they might expect from their CDD marriage. Much of the talk will be the husband, the leader of the family, instructing his wife as to his wishes and expectations for her in their new arrangement, all of which she should pay close attention. However, the husband should place a high importance on his wifes opinions during this time as well if they both are to be content within the relationship.
Most importantly, the couple should approach each subject with prayer, asking Gods blessing on their marriage and the decisions they make regarding their CDD relationship.
***Recommended in conjunction with Christian Domestic Discipline 101***
What the hell? I'd heard of the whole submit to your husbands thing, but this is insane. What sort of wet dishrag would go along with this? I'd love to see their sample consent form.